I’m a mom, a retired speaker, an author, a rape survivor and an Ironman. I spent too many years…way too many years…acting like a chameleon, constantly changing colors to please the people who crossed my path. It might sound like a good thing to do but trust me it’s not healthy to value yourself based on what other people think. Thanks to some good friends and the struggle of completing an Ironman, my perspective changed and my self-worth grew. Living happily ever after is about finding and loving your authentic self. I want to help you get there